The exchange of wedding vows is the climax of the whole wedding ceremony. It is the most romantic part, and the perfect time to announce your feelings not only to your fiancee, but also to all of your friends and family. Writing down those feelings, however, can be trickier than it seems. When its time for you to write your own wedding vows, think about how you want to creatively say your feelings. Some like to stick to the traditional vows, some other couples like to be non-traditional or even personalized. Some like to get a little creative with their wording.

If you decide to write your own vows, decide first if you’re going to write them as a couple or individually. Those who choose to write them as a couple come up with creative wording that flows from person to person. However, most couples like to write their own individual vows and feelings because they feel they can be a bit more personal.

Either way, speak from your heart. And don’t forget - practice makes perfect!

When it comes to your ceremony, there are typically four types. Religious, Non-traditional, civil, and military.

Religious ceremonies are by far the most common type of ceremony. If you’re wanting an inter-faith ceremony, be sure to speak with both of your priest, pastor, or rabbi and see what options are available to create something unique for you both.

Non-traditional ceremonies are very similar to a Religious one. These are mostly for people who are members of a “non-denominational” church. Non-traditional weddings offer you the most lea-way to make your wedding very personal, you can be as creative as you wish.

A Civil ceremony is one that is given by a Justice of the Peace, a Judge, or a Marriage Commissionaire who is hired by the state. Although this seams like a very “impersonal” style, these ceremonies can be just like any other and can be held pretty much anywhere.

If you or your fiancee is in the Military, you may be entitled to an all out Military ceremony. Ask your Officer where you can have the ceremony (Chapel or elsewhere) and be sure to discuss all your options that are available.